[ tseng doesn't respond to that first part, if only because he doesn't know how to articulate i may be a killer, but i'm not a rapist. ]
Someone who ignores safe words or gestures, or who violates agreed-upon boundaries. Discussing expectations is important, especially early in a dynamic, and neither party can be unilateral in decisions about rules and punishments. A certain amount of trust is foundational, and anyone who willfully violates that trust is a bad dominant.
cw: sa mention
Someone who ignores safe words or gestures, or who violates agreed-upon boundaries. Discussing expectations is important, especially early in a dynamic, and neither party can be unilateral in decisions about rules and punishments. A certain amount of trust is foundational, and anyone who willfully violates that trust is a bad dominant.